It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way: Finding Unexpected Strength When Disappointments Leave You Shattered

Reviewed by:

Jaci Gorrell, Professional Writing alumnus from Taylor University.

REVIEW INTRODUCTION:

Book Title:

It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way: Finding Unexpected Strength When Disappointments Leave You Shattered

Author:

Lysa TerKeurst

Publisher:

Nelson Books

Publication Date:

November 13, 2018

Format:

Print Book

Length:

256 pages

OVERVIEW:

Sometimes life throws curveballs we don’t expect. Whether situations don’t unfold as we planned or our lives feel completely unraveled, it can be difficult to muster the strength to trust God in these moments. Lysa TerKeurst’s It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way confronts this issue head-on.

As TerKeurst explains, this book was penned in the midst of two of the most monumental trials she has ever faced. Accordingly, her words echo wisdom that has been hard-earned. TerKeurst begins by discussing the reality of earthly suffering while living under the providence of a loving God. With relevant and raw anecdotes, she illustrates how God can transform and mold us through every season of life—especially those that hold suffering.

TerKeurst proclaims truth and gives practical guidance for those walking through trials. She speaks candidly about times when it feels like God has stopped listening or when it feels like He has left. In doing so, she pulls back the curtain to reveal how the enemy uses our doubts and trials to advance his schemes.

Altogether, this book offers a challenging, practical and powerful message. TerKeurst bravely shares her story and employs Scripture to share valuable advice on being steadfast when we are given more than we can handle. If you are walking through a difficult season or are supporting someone in this position, It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way will encourage you to find strength and hope in the midst of it all.

ASSESSMENT:

Rating: 5 out of 5 stars

Suggested Audience

It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way offers candid advice for Christian women who find themselves questioning God’s timing and actions during life’s struggles.

Christian Impact

This book examines the depths of unexpected suffering through the lens of scriptural truth. The advice, stories, and testimony shared are rooted in biblical research and wisdom.

Other Notes

TerKeurst includes a short section at the end of each chapter to recap subject matter, highlight applicable Scripture, pose thoughtful questions, and provide a relevant prayer. She also includes a section at the end of the book detailing nine Scriptures to help readers through the times when God seems silent.